There is one learning experience that’s constantly in the back of my mind. I’ve learned many things from this experience. The morning of my high school commencement plays in my head every day. I woke up to get ready for commencement. I didn’t want to get out of bed yet, so I looked on twitter. The first tweet I saw was from my friend Savana who is two years older than me, it read “Today I lost my best friend, my other half, my sister, my everything.” My heart instantly dropped. I didn’t know what happened, or what it meant. I messaged her, and all she texted back was “Callie, she’s gone.” It was one of the worst texts I could have ever gotten. It was about my friend Lexi who is a year younger than me, who is Savana’s sister. Savana told me that Lexi got in a car accident and that she was with 4 of her friends, but that she didn’t know about anyone else. I went downstairs to tell my parents, and we were all crying. I then received another text from Savana saying that Blake and Jeff also passed away, and that Kevin and Julia were in critical condition. My parents have always been family friends with Blakes parents. They were devastated. After reading facebook status’s and talking to people I found out more information, also as the days went on we were given more information. They were jumping railroad tracks and when they landed the car spun into a tree. They were not under the influence of any drugs or alcohol, and were all good people that were known through out the Brunswick community. Kevin and Jeff were supposed to be at commencement with us that day. Lexi, Blake and Julia were juniors. Commencement was nothing like it should have been. No one said a word. There was no celebration, no throwing of hats, anything. Just silence. Once commencement was over we all just walked out. Later on that night we all went to a prayer service.After the service we found out that Kevin didn’t make it. Julia managed to walk away with only a broken pinky finger. My hometown Brunswick Ohio lost 4 amazing people that day, the day of our high school commencement, June 3rd, 2012. After the accident the next week and our entire summer was spent hanging blue ribbons all over our city. Being with our family and friends, mostly sitting there in silence, or reminiscing on the good times that we had with them. Also some of our time was spent going to wakes and funerals, at the age of 18. I’ve never been to church and I ended up attending several prayer services. The accident has been such a learning experience. I still don’t understand why it had to happen to them, but everyone is trying to think positive and think about how it can help others. I have learned that you should live each day to the fullest, because it can be gone instantly. I have learned that you should make more of an effort to spend time with the people that mean the most to you. I have also learned that driving is something that needs to be taken very seriously. I have learned to be more cautious and think more about everything, and make sure everything I’m doing is safe. I have always believed that everything happens for a reason. The accident made me believe it even more. There’s no way this didn’t happen without there being a reason behind it. The tracks were also unsafe, and now the city is going to fix the road to prevent accidents. They could end up saving lives be people hearing their story. My friend Kevin, one of his 50 life goals that we had to write senior year was to save someones life. He is an organ donor, he ended up saving more than one life with his organs. This whole accident was a real eye opener, and made me realize a lot of things about life. Every day I think about it, and learn from it.